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Cult of Abuse and Victimization;
The
Dysfunctional Inner Circle of the National Park Service (NPS)
Part 1 of 4- Predation, Abuse, and
Victimization
Leslie Morgan Steiner, in her book Crazy
Love, describes the three steps of victimization in cases of domestic
violence: 1) seduction, 2) isolation, and 3) dominance and control. Also inherent in these cases of
domestic violence is manipulation by the predator of the victim’s emotional
involvement and commitment to the relationship with the predator.
In the first step, seduction, the predator
seduces the victim by extolling the virtues and importance of the victim in the
nascent relationship developing between the victim and the abuser. Regardless of whether or not this
seduction is calculated or is unintentional on the part of the predator, the
result is the same-- to disarm the victim with falsified, tacit promises of
empowerment and safety for the victim in the developing relationship. The seduction targets the victim’s
trust and willingness to commit to a relationship for the values expressed
during the seduction. What makes
this seduction is that the expressed values are deceptions and lies.
The second step of victimization requires the
predator to isolate the victim from family, friends, and any kind of support
systems. During this stage, the predator chooses a situation that places
himself in situation of complete control and dominance over the victim.
The final step of victimization occurs after
the predator has effectively isolated the victim. Once isolation has been achieved, the predator is free
to control and dominate every aspect of a victim’s life. At this point, the relationship
transforms from the seduction-promised values of equality and interdependence
to absolute dominance and control of the victim by the predator. This is typically the setting where
domestic violence and abuse occurs.
By this point the victim has been completely disarmed by the lies and
deceit of the seduction and rendered emotionally and psychologically powerless
by being removed and isolated from any form of advocacy, intervention, or
support.
I am not and would not posit that National Park
Service (NPS) management is guilty of inflicting physical violence on NPS
staff. In fact, the NPS has very
strong policies to protect all employees from victimization by physical
violence. On the matter of abuse,
however, I am of the mind of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. who stated:
“[i]njustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” If I may paraphrase, I would say: “justification of abuse at any
level is a justification of abuse at every level.” As horrific as physical abuse is, I would posit that
emotional and psychological abuse can be just as damaging to its victims. The steps for emotional and psychological
victimization are identical with the steps that lead to physical violence
victimization. The dividing line
between physical abuse and psychological and emotional abuse is purely
arbitrary and capricious. The
result of this division is that emotional and psychological abuse is 1000 times
more prevalent in our society than physical abuse, and emotional and
psychological abuse is at least 1000 time more acceptable in our society than
physical abuse. Within many United
States government agencies emotional and psychological abuse is not only
acceptable it has become institutionalized. Nowhere is this problem of predatory and abusive behavior
more egregious than in the National Park Service.
Chad Montreaux
Newell, CA
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