Informal
Interpretation at Sites of Conscience
Part 2 of 4: The Pitfalls of Empathy and Emotional Comfort
Misconstruing empathy
creates a pitfall for interpretation at a Site of Conscience. Empathy is not “understanding.” Telling an injured person who is
experiencing emotional pain that you “understand” the injury and their
emotional response to that injury can create distance from rather than connection to
the injured person. Telling a person who is injured that you “understand” their
injury (based on an assumed common or similar experience) is patronizing and
can result in antagonizing and marginalizing the injured party. The concept that empathy and
understanding are synonymous results from an erroneous belief that all humans
are essential the same and react to stimulus and situations in common
ways. Implicit in this erroneous
belief is the assumption that there is universal access to “understanding” the
complex mechanism of how a particular injury affects another individual. This assumption also implies that you
have complete knowledge of the other person’s life history and how the
psychological impact of that life affects their emotional responses.
As an interpreter at
a Site of Consciousness, empathy can be effectively described as the emotional
recognition that another person is experiencing pain. The appropriate intellectual component of empathy for an
interpreter at a Site of Consciousness is to recognize that visitors
experiencing trauma and pain may be cognitively impaired by that injury and not
responsive to rational and logical reasoning. The second pitfall of empathy involves exceeding the point
where the interpreter has such a strong empathetic reaction and identification
with the visitor’s pain and injury that the interpreter also becomes
cognitively impaired.
An interpreter at a
Site of Conscience is also a human being with unique emotional needs and
subject to emotional responses as a result of the injustice and injury
interpreted at the site as well as interactions with visitors. It is human nature that, when confronted
with sources of pain, especially recurrent sources of pain, people tend to
create mechanisms for coping with that pain. However useful these mechanisms may be for emotional
well-being, coping mechanisms used by interpreters at Sites of Conscience may
inadvertently be detrimental to the visitor’s experience and become the second
pitfall for the interpreter. If
visitors are attempting to express the pain and injury that has arisen as a
result of the intellectual and emotional connection to the site and the
interpreter manages his/her own level of emotional comfort (with the subject
matter and/or the visitors’ emotional response) by redirecting the interaction,
“changing the subject,” or “downplaying” the injury by comparing it to other
historical events, then the needs of the visitors to make their own emotional
and intellectual connections with the site may be impaired and, subsequently,
the mission for the site is compromised.
Chad Montreaux
Newell, CA
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